
I just saw one of my patients whom I had not seen for a couple of years. I had a little extra time and he seemed open to talk about something he very rarely talks about.
His father was murdered when he was 12 years old in Mexico. His father was a very active politician and the cartel needed to silence him. I have never faced this so directly and am writing this note while the feelings are still quite fresh. I am not thinking anything new. We all know that prohibition robbed him from growing up without a father. How very tragic. How VERY stupid.
At this moment I plan on asking him to meet a few more times to talk more about it. Maybe it happens all the time, but I had never seen or thought of how potentially powerful his message might be. Regardless, one more adult without a father because cannabis is illegal.
How insane. How very sad.